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Neil P. Edkins

1940 - 2025

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Doug Emblidge posted a condolence

Friday, August 29, 2025

Neil was my phys ed teacher at Monica Leary School in the late 60s and early 70s. I ran into him occasionally over the years. Always a class act. Just an all-around great guy. My condolences to the family.

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Amy Quinn posted a condolence

Monday, August 25, 2025

Jen, Elizabeth and Alexander- I am so sorry for your loss. I know how heartbreaking it is. I enjoyed reading about his role in the sports community. I didn’t realize that. I am guessing that this made him extra especially proud of your sports accomplishments, Elizabeth and Alexander!

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Jim Miller posted a condolence

Monday, August 25, 2025

I am deeply saddened by the loss of such a remarkable individual. His kindness, generosity, and bright spirit touched everyone in the high school and college soccer referee community. My heartfelt condolences go out to Phyllis and the family during this difficult time. Neil’s work on behalf of NYSCOS at many NYSPHSAA Boys State Soccer Championships, coordinating referee assignments, made them a success. For many years he was the NISOA Regional Representative for NY and New England, working at the national level. He was well respected, and his ideas were well received. He was a legend in the collegiate soccer referee realm, and we are better for having known him and his contributions. May his soul rest in peace.

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Richard Giarrizzo posted a condolence

Sunday, August 24, 2025

My first captain in senior softball, great captain and even greater man.

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John Quinn posted a condolence

Sunday, August 24, 2025

Neil’s family It’s a privilege to call Neil our friend. He was positive force to his family, friends, as a teacher and coach in RH schools. Neil was a humble man who set a fine example to all who knew him. I called Neil my minute man who was ready to go on short notice to a Bonaventure basketball game or Red Wings baseball game. Rest in peace Neil . Jack & Cindy Quinn

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Bob Spring posted a condolence

Sunday, August 24, 2025

Condolences to the Edkins family -- Great memories of the old RHAA morning/afternoon program in the 70's and 80's with Coach Edkins running the show; a true RH legend -- Bob Spring

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Kevin Barci posted a condolence

Saturday, August 23, 2025

My condolences to the Edkins family and friends. I had the pleasure of working with Neil as a college referee. He had faith in me to assign me to the toughest games. His mentoring was instrumental in my development as a referee. His contributions in high school and college soccer will be remembered forever. Thank you Neil.

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Bernard McCullen posted a condolence

Saturday, August 23, 2025

Dear Edkins Family, I have fond memories of Neil as team mate in the Irondequoit softball league. He was gentle and kind and a lot of fun. I know he will be missed. My prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Bernie McCullen

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Allyson posted a condolence

Friday, August 22, 2025

Dear Mrs Edkins, Charles , Jody and Jennifer, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I have so many fond memories of him growing up. May you be comforted knowing that you aren't saying "good bye " to your beloved husband and father, you will truly see him again one day in Heaven ! Much love, Allyson Wood - Auburn

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Thursday, August 21, 2025

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Coach Edkins was a big influence in my life and so many others in RH. Gave my my first job as an RHAA coach and umpire. Taught me a lot about handling people! Accelerated my baseball career as an 8th grader on his Freshman team and encouraged me when I hit a speed bump with a Math class. He was a steady, wise influence who was always there. My sincere condolences to the Edkins family, I hope knowing how much your Dad did to help others will help you during this time. God speed to my fellow Cortland Red Deagon! Save a spot for me on your team in heaven Coach.

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E. Sue Mills posted a condolence

Thursday, August 21, 2025

I had the pleasure of working with Neil at Leary Elementary School. He was a fine man and a great teacher. My condolences to his family. May he rest in peace. Sincerely, E. Sue Mills

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