Mary Pat Tobey


10:00 am
Monday, April 12, 2021
Church Of The Transfiguration
50 West Bloomfield Road
Pittsford, New York, United States

Final Resting Place

Maplewood Cemetery
Middle Road
Henrietta, New York, United States

Obituary of Mary Pat Tobey

Mary Patricia (Beikirch) Tobey of Henrietta passed away peacefully surrounded by family on April 2, 2021. After raising her family as a long-time Scottsville resident, Mary Pat moved to Henrietta with her husband, Bob. Mary Pat's personality lit up any room with joy. Whether it was a St. Patrick's Day celebration, golf, or a party, she enjoyed life. Her true passion was her family. She was a devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt, and "favorite" to all her friends. Predeceased by her father Robert, father-in-law Donald, and brother-in-law John Velekkakan. Survived by her husband Robert, children Timothy (Rachel) Gerken, Kevin (Stephanie) Gerken, Kelly Gerken, step-children Erin (Rob) Barron, Brian (Sarah), grandchildren Heidi, Liana, Finn, Elliott, Parker, Wyatt, Abigail, Caroline, mother Eileen, mother-in-law Lucille, Siblings Robert Jr., Bonnie Lupia, Kathy Velekkakan, Eileen (Lino) Contestabile and Michael (Amy), loving nieces and nephews, and many life long friends. No prior calling hours. Funeral Mass will be held at Church of the Transfiguration, 50 West Bloomfield Rd, Pittsford, NY on Monday, April 12, 2021 at 10:00am. Burial at Maplewood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance: or The United Way of Greater Rochester: United Way of Greater Rochester - Donate ( To view Mary Pats's funeral mass online, please visit
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